why ? when a woman is not married , heaven of
a child lies to her parents , especially mothers . But when a woman has been
married and be a wife , heaven is not located in the mother but to the husband
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But it does not mean that a wife is not obliged to honor her mother , it's just that the wife should be obedient to her husband and then her parents . such as in the story below
At the time of the Prophet used to be, there is a friend who wanted to fight , and told his wife not to leave the house as long as he does not exist .
The friend 's wife promised to obey. However , fate is hard suspected .
Days later , came a messenger from her family , and preach about her mother who was seriously ill , and expect the arrival of the wife .
The wife , by apologizing , saying can not attend . Her husband was not home , and she has promised to obey her husband message , will not leave the house . The delegates understood .
A day later , the messenger came again , the mother reported her illness worsened. The wife remained firm , and did not want to break a promise .
Another day , the messenger comes , with a pale face . He reported , the mother has passed away , and until the end of her life , she did not see her face .
Cried the wife , but she did not dare attend the funeral . She must obey her husband .
Shortly after that , ask his friend to Messenger for the incident . They are mostly " denounced " proper wife to the husband . But what did the Prophet ? " Because that's her compliance , her mother is now in heaven . " It's a story beyond the everage.Subhanallah ! !
Of this story .. the scholars unanimously say . :
" If a child heaven under your feet .. but when the woman has married a wife .. then heaven .. depending blessing of her husband .. "
But it does not mean that a wife is not obliged to honor her mother , it's just that the wife should be obedient to her husband and then her parents . such as in the story below
At the time of the Prophet used to be, there is a friend who wanted to fight , and told his wife not to leave the house as long as he does not exist .
The friend 's wife promised to obey. However , fate is hard suspected .
Days later , came a messenger from her family , and preach about her mother who was seriously ill , and expect the arrival of the wife .
The wife , by apologizing , saying can not attend . Her husband was not home , and she has promised to obey her husband message , will not leave the house . The delegates understood .
A day later , the messenger came again , the mother reported her illness worsened. The wife remained firm , and did not want to break a promise .
Another day , the messenger comes , with a pale face . He reported , the mother has passed away , and until the end of her life , she did not see her face .
Cried the wife , but she did not dare attend the funeral . She must obey her husband .
Shortly after that , ask his friend to Messenger for the incident . They are mostly " denounced " proper wife to the husband . But what did the Prophet ? " Because that's her compliance , her mother is now in heaven . " It's a story beyond the everage.Subhanallah ! !
Of this story .. the scholars unanimously say . :
" If a child heaven under your feet .. but when the woman has married a wife .. then heaven .. depending blessing of her husband .. "
